We are all sinners. I understand that, but why do some people go through more hardships than others?
A friend of my just went through an awful loss. A loss I have never {thankfully} experienced. A loss noone should ever have to experience, but they do.
This friend had such an enormous amount of faith and peace surrounding her whole situation. Faith that I don't think I would have had if I were in the same situation. I truly believed God was going to see her through and perform many miracles in her life. I truly believed, that because of her faith, it was all going to turn out well.
But, the unimaginable still happened.
Why?
This is a question that I believe God will never give us a clear answer to here on earth. Everything that happens, happens for a reason. It is all part of His plan! "For I know the plans I have for you." says the Lord. (Jeremiah 29:11)
I believe He also allows these things to happen to draw us closer to Him. To need Him in ways we never thought we would. ”Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6)
He wants complete and total trust, from us! He doesn't want us to worry about all the Why's in life. He has it all under control.
Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous fall. (Psalm 55:22)
Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. (1 Peter 5:7)
I still may not fully understand why she had to suffer such a devastating loss. I may not understand why so many children are suffering in this world. {aren't they the innocent ones?} But I do know that God is in control. He has a perfect will and plan for her/their life. He doesn't want any of us to fall away from Him during times of suffering, but to draw nearer to Him {and to draw nearer to those that are suffering and need comforted the most!}. He will provide us with comfort and peace like we never dreamed or imagined!
I will lift her up in prayer as well as many others who are suffering through the why's in life. As a sister in Christ, it is my duty to lift my fellow brothers and sisters up in prayer. God still hears our prayers. He will bring peace and healing to their lives. He loves them unconditionally. Our God is awesome. Let us never forget that!
If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer. (Matthew 21:22)Dear Gracious Father, you know the hurting and the pain my friend is going through. I pray that you will bring her peace and comfort. Help her and her family to feel your warm, loving, arms wrapped ever so tightly around them. I pray that her faith has remained the same; so very strong! I pray she finds comfort in the prayers and encourging words and acts of love from her friends and fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. I pray that you will help me to not question you when I see or hear of the awful things being done to those that seem so undeserving of it. Instead, help me to turn to my knees and lift them up in prayer. To turn to you instead of away from you. Thank you Jesus for loving us still and always offering us peace, healing, and love. In Your Precious, Holy, Name, I pray, Amen!
Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. (Mark 11:24)
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. (Philippians 4:6)
I look forward to graduating with you as well! You can finish!!!
ReplyDeleteI have had a lot of "why" moments in my life as well. I try to keep in mind that:"And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good" Romans 8:28.
Happy reading!
I love your thoughts. I wrestled with that same issue when we lost our daughter and I had multiple miscarriages. For a control freak like me, it was a TOUGH lesson. I'm praying for your friend. And...keep on reading!! We're almost there!!
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ReplyDeleteI have thought the same thing. My friend from church lost her sweet precious 8 month old baby girl just out of the blue. She has written a blog that has helped us all so much although I am sure it has helped her too. I don't know what happened to your friend, but I have found encouragement from my friend Cari (http://andyandcari.blogspot.com/).